Stop Running In Crowd ~

Today, I took a few minutes slight walk to visit my #LinkedIn profile, the very first thing that i read is: "I lost my job". Recruiters posting job vacancies & asking who lost their jobs due to this sudden outbreak happened by COVID-19. I see, most people leaving their reviews saying, "I lost my job". This makes me wonder: "How bad the economy is or how uneducated people are?" That's real shame that people loosing their jobs due to this pandemic, but the more worst part of it is, rather investing their free time with families or planning on to do something creative or thinking about "Starting up own business, they still keep wasting their time in "worries and wants" of their mind.

I understand the helplessness of people - the circumstances and life's parameters, perhaps besides of this, what I personally believe is, there should be some space for family members and to "one-self" as well. This be the foremost time that we can spend with homies.

Frankly speaking, I haven't visited my home in last 2 yrs. cos of work and job-ish norms. And before this outbreak, i had put my resign already, and was searching for better opportunities which i found 5 days prior to the completion of my resignation period. I completed all the full and final paperwork formalities, and got free from the company in a hope to join anew one, but guess what, suddenly this outbreak outburst, and my joining date didn't come thus far or you can say, it has been delayed and will be delayed and get postponed till the #LockDown gets over.

Resulting, no salary is coming. i am with no salary. Sometimes, it makes me feel like, "what if i won't put resign, i would also be getting salary each month."

Post that, I discussed the matter with my family members, and i started thinking in other ways, i am like: "There was allot of work pressure which was getting increased day by day as my team leader had loaded all the work on me. Moreover, i wasn't even getting paid off as much i deserved so it was the good thing which i done - Resigned!"

Now i am free, i know, i am not getting salary till the joining date comes (for anew company), but at least, i am home and with family - spending time with them and eating, sleeping and doing everything what i want - totally free. Nobody is here to tell me how to do this work and whom to report and all kinda stuffs. So this be the best part.

And when i visited linkedin, it made me.. even makes me feel like: "Everyone is running in crowd. Hardly the one takes an initiate to walk in a direction he walks in to."

Perhaps, I fully understand the situation when you have no job and your shoulders are loaded with too many responsibilities. It really makes us all worried when we are in such situation, but we shan't waste the time in suchness of worries - it's just the state of one's mind.

We have to question oneself to know the answers to what we are seeking for.  Nobody can answer you better than you-yourself. So ask away. No need to stand in front of the mirror and doing drama by asking questions and making senseless face-gestures, just sit down. Be calm. Breathe in and breathe out, grab a pen and paper, or better get your laptop on if you love typing and your typing speed is as good as me - 70 words per minute - then write away!! Pen down the things that worrying you the most, and think in other way to find the resolutions. Nobody has found success in worries, but "WITH" happiness. So be happy and stay calm. Do MEDITATION. It helps allot!

Job is really not everything but stress-free life is. 
Happiness is not even everything but love to oneself is. 

Everyone wants job, but let me hear you how many of us wanna DO WORK FREELY!? - everyone! Right?

So rather running throughout the crowd, try doing things differently. You say, you wanna become billionaire, let me tell you one thing very clear and straight, nobody has become billionaire doing 9-5 job or doing night-shifts and serving to UK, USA and white clients and customers or spending whole night in call-centre? or may be, living in living relationships? or fucking gurls and hoes every night? or may be, finding love in others/in gurls than in oneself? - right?

Do you think, you will become billionaire saying: "Oh, i lost my job!! Ooh, i lost my business!! Oh no, why she doesn't love me? Why is not picking up my call? Why she doesn't understand how badly I wanna talk to her right now?" and all and all? - Never!

Moral:
Stop running in crowd. Make your own way to live throughout. 

Work From Home Myth

Ever since i joined a company, i always wished to do work from home, or at least, some freelancing so as i don't need to go out and spend hours at work.

Perhaps, during this #21DaysLockedDown, when i found an opportunity to work from home, esp. freelancing, i thought to give it a shot a week back, and guess what? - at first, i was like: "Nothing is better than this" , but as time accumulated by so the demands of clients, i would start feeling quite low - a bit frustrated, i would say. I am the guy who doesn't like taking orders nor prefer doing the work according to others. And as per my experience "work from home" is not-so-creative. It kills ones's creativity, esp. the "power" to "think" - we get to get too many calls, texts and mails from the boss about the project and work like how-to-do, what-to-do, what-not-to-do, and shit and all...

When i took the project, i was way happier, though when i got this completed by time, i was like: "if this is work from home, then where is work & where is home?"

Work from home should be for who prefer not go social not for the ones who can't even stay stuck at home.

Thoughts At 6.00AM ~

26th  march, 2020
6.00 am ----

I was working on some given assignments and projects a minute back which i had to finish by today. Thankfully, it all got wrapped up nicely, perhaps, it cost #MySleep - yes, it's true, i haven't ev'n slept for ov'r the past 3 nights in a row, but not exactly. I often took some naps in 'tween, though. As of now, it's 6.10am - and suddenly, a thought hit in my head like to make anew blog on #Blogger for helping people who really need to know how to handle customers, esp. disgruntled ones online. With the past 2-3 years of real good experience with handling customers online, i have chosen to get tactics delivered to others, esp. to my team-members who were always up to learn new things from me. So when i resigned off my job, without letting my team know, they felt a bit sad, esp. a few of 'em who were quite close to me. But before leaving the company, i had shared some of my #keynotes with them to help 'em a bit, perhaps, it didn't work because a few days later from resigning and leaving off all social groups, one of my advisers would text me, and asked me about some queries ?related to office work and process ----

So i decided to ask him to make a separate group and to add only those guys who really want to learn and get their skills improvised. On this, most of them felt good so did i.

It's always worth staying in touch with people who respect you, love and always want to be with you. The world is very big but the life is not so why not living around people who love being with you? - simple as that!! And it's always good sharing something of valuable with them who really want to learn from you.

And since then, i have been sharing updates and all things on #Whatsapp group as i once used to do when i was in company; as their support. ''
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Also, when i was in company; and handling team, during the time frame of handling new advisers, and giving training to 'em, i observed that most of them need-ed proper training - but of what? - for enhancing their writing skills because "Process Knowledge" is something that you can't provide neither learn in a day, it comes with "Practice" - the more you practice and handle customers online, the more you will get to learn, perhaps, in between that, before process knowledge, how and what will you write or to reply to the customer in what format - decides the level of your skills and sense of homour.

Personally, i have experienced, most advisers/agents get scared when they get to handle very disgruntled customer who is not happy with our service and is there to cancel all the contracts with such unhappiness -

... it becomes quite challenging when you go off track, and the catch is, you can't provide the direct resolution to such customers neither can get their all services/contracts cancelled in a blink of hot seconds - can you? - I really don't think so, of course, until you don't care of receiving any negative survey/feedback from 'em.

Such angry customers have been one of my most fav. ones to handle, of course, not since day one but since I learned how amazing it is to handle customers, smoothly. And to handle any kinda customer, you have to understand his mindset and all - so to help you guys learn something of valuable like how to handle customers online, i have decided to make this blog where i will be posting a regular post or posts once or twice a time in a week or two.
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Ps.
A couple of months back, i dad made blogs on Wordpress when i was in company: https://shivaumwright.wordpress.com/ - it was being processed for helping my team members, but i could never find much amount of time to understand this Wordpress thig. Post that, i ended up with nothing - Today, suddenly a thought hit in my head and guess what? ---- here we are guys. A blog on blogger not on wordpress now ~ i have been using blogger since 2015, and am very familiar with it and its features - very user friendly it is unlikely to Wordpress, obviously.